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COMMUNICATION/CONVERSATION/DIALOGUE

 

1.    A conversation goes sometimes into personal things and that's nicer. You look to each other and you have a different picture, you get into a relationship. ~Maximilian Schell

2.    A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That's why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet. ~Truman Capote

3.    A dearth of words a woman need not fear; But 'tis a task indeed to learn to hear: In that the skill of conversation lies; That shows and makes you both polite and wise. ~Edward Young

4.    A good conversationalist is not one who remembers what was said, but says what someone wants to remember. ~John Mason Brown

5.    A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short. ~Andre Maurois

6.    A man's character may be learned from the adjectives which he habitually uses in conversation. ~Mark Twain

7.    A single conversation across the table with a wise man is better than ten years mere study of books. ~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

8.    A world community can exist only with world communication, which means something more than extensive short-wave facilities scattered ;about the globe. It means common understanding, a common tradition, common ideas, and common ideals. ~Robert Maynard Hutchins

9.    A writer writes not because he is educated but because he is driven by the need to communicate. Behind the need to communicate is the need to share. Behind the need to share is the need to be understood. ~Leo Rosten

10.  All noise is waste. So cultivate quietness in your speech, in your thoughts, in your emotions. Speak habitually low. Wait for attention and then you low words will be charged with dynamite. ~Elbert Hubbard

11.  Anyone who thinks the art of conversation is dead ought to tell a child to go to bed. ~Robert C. Gallagher

12.  As far as playing jazz, no other art form, other than conversation, can give the satisfaction of spontaneous interaction. ~Stan Getz

13.  Ask those who love Him with a sincere love, and they will tell you that they find no greater or prompter relief amid the troubles of their life than in loving conversation with their Divine Friend. ~Alphonsus Liguori

14.  Behind every argument is someone's ignorance. ~Louis D. Brandeis

15.  Communication can't always follow the top-down model. With the fluidity of information in business today, leaders need to be masterful listeners; they need to be able to receive as well as send. ~Joseph Badaracco

16.  Communication is depositing a part of yourself in another person. ~Unknown

17.  Communication is the real work of leadership. ~Nitin Nohria

18.  Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing. ~Rollo May

19.  Communication works for those who work at it. ~John Powell

20.  Communication works for those who work at it. ~John Powell

21.  Communication--the human connection--is the key to personal and career success. ~    Paul J. Meyer

22.  Conversation about the weather is the last refuge of the unimaginative. ~Oscar Wilde

23.  Conversation enriches the understanding, but solitude is the school of genius. ~Edward Gibbon

24.  Conversation is the fine art of mutual consideration and communication about matters of common interest that basically have some human importance. ~Ordway Tead

25.  Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen. ~Winston Churchill

26.  Debate is masculine, conversation is feminine. ~Amos Bronson Alcott

27.  Deep listening is miraculous for both listener and speaker. When someone receives us with open-hearted, non-judging, intensely interested listening, our spirits expand. ~Sue Patton Thoele

28.  Deep listening is miraculous for both listener and speaker. When someone receives us with open-hearted, non-judging, intensely interested listening, our spirits expand. ~Sue Patton Thoele

29.  Dialogue is a non-confrontational communication, where both partners are willing to learn from the other and therefore leads much farther into finding new grounds together. ~Scilla Elworthy

30.  Dialogue is the only way to end war and terror. We need practical solidarity with those who are weaker and diplomacy from below. ~Luisa Morgantini

31.  Drawing on my fine command of language, I said nothing. ~Robert Benchley

32.  Electric communication will never be a substitute for the face of someone who with their soul encourages another person to be brave and true. ~Charles Dickens

33.  Eschew obfuscation. ~Unknown

34.  Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible -- the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nurturing family. ~Virginia Satir

35.  First learn the meaning of what you say, and then speak. ~Epictetus

36.  Genuine poetry can communicate before it is understood. ~T.S. Eliot

37.  Give me the gift of a listening heart. ~King Solomon

38.  Good communication does not mean that you have to speak in perfectly formed sentences and paragraphs. It isn't about slickness. Simple and clear go a long way. ~John Kotter

39.  Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleep after. ~Anne Morrow Lindbergh

40.  He has occasional flashes of silence that make his conversation perfectly delightful. ~Sydney Smith

41.  He who knows, does not speak. He who speaks, does not know. ~Lao Tzu

42.  Hear one side and you will be in the dark. Hear both and all will be clear. ~Thomas C. Haliburton

43.  I am in favor of increased communication and cooperation between countries, but it is more important that each country becomes responsible for its own actions, its own communities, its own economies, before starting to integrate in large regional or global supranational organizations. ~David Korten

44.  I attribute the little I know to my not having been ashamed to ask for information, and to my rule of conversing with all descriptions of men on those topics that form their own peculiar professions and pursuits. ~John Locke

45.  I detest that man, who hides one thing in the depths of his heart, and speaks forth another ~Homer

46.  I know what things are good: friendship and work and conversation. ~Rupert Brooke

47.  I often quote myself. It adds spice to my conversation. ~George Bernard Shaw

48.  Ideal conversation must be an exchange of thought, and not, as many of those who worry about their shortcomings believe, an eloquent exhibition of wit or oratory. ~Emily Post

49.  If a person feels he can't communicate, the least he can do is shut up about it. ~Tom Lehrer

50.  If there is any great secret of success in life, it lies in the ability to put yourself in the other person’s place and to see things from his point of view – as well as your own. ~Henry Ford

51.  If we are strong, our strength will speak for itself. If we are weak, words will be of no help. ~John Fitzgerald Kennedy

52.  If you go in for argument, take care of your temper. Your logic, if you have any, will take care of itself. ~Joseph Farrell

53.  If you have nothing to say, say nothing. ~Mark Twain

54.  If you have nothing to say, say nothing. ~Mark Twain 

55.  If you start a conversation with the assumption that you are right or that you must win, obviously it is difficult to talk. ~Wendell Berry

56.  If you wish to converse with me, define your terms ~Voltaire

57.  I'm a great believer that any tool that enhances communication has profound effects in terms of how people can learn from each other, and how they can achieve the kind of freedoms that they're interested in. ~Bill Gates

58.  In communications, familiarity breeds apathy. ~William Bernbach

59.  In the last analysis, what we are communicates far more eloquently than anything we say or do. ~Stephen R. Covey

60.  It is greed to do all the talking but not to want to listen at all ~Democritus

61.  It is no use speaking in soft, gentle tones if everyone else is shouting. ~Joseph Priestley

62.  It is the province of knowledge to speak, and it is the privilege of wisdom to listen. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes

63.  It seemed rather incongruous that in a society of supersophisticated communication, we often suffer from a shortage of listeners. ~Erma Bombeck

64.  Knowledge speaks, but wisdom listens. ~Jimi Hendrix

65.  Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery. ~Dr. Joyce Brothers

66.  Make a distinction between the person and their opinions—opinions are like clothes, a matter of taste and fashion that can be changed at will. Don't mistake them for the essential core. ~Mark Somner

67.  Many attempts to communicate are nullified by saying too much. ~Robert Greeleaf

68.  Many of the conflicts in our lives and in the world are caused by misunderstandings. Sometimes we jump to conclusions about why others do things. Sometimes we don't understand the cultural differences of others. Poor communication makes the conflict worse. Real dialogue can often lead to understanding, helping communities to get along much better. ~Robert Alan

69.  Men and women belong to different species and communications between them is still in its infancy. ~Bill Cosby

70.  Method is not less requisite in ordinary conversation than in writing, provided a man would talk to make himself understood. ~Joseph Addison

71.  Most quarrels amplify a misunderstanding. ~Andre Gide

72.  Music . . . can name the unnameable and communicate the unknowable. ~Leonard Bernstein

73.  My basic rule is to speak slowly and simply so that my audience has an opportunity to follow and think about what I am saying. ~Margaret Chase Smith

74.  No one would talk much in society if they knew how often they misunderstood others. ~Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

75.  Not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. ~George Sala

76.  Nothing is so simple that it cannot be misunderstood. ~Jr. Teague

77.  Of all of our inventions for mass communication, pictures still speak the most universally understood language. ~Walt Disney

78.  One kind word can warm three winter months. ~Japanese Proverb

79.  One of the basic causes for all the trouble in the world today is that people talk too much and think too little. ~Margaret Chase Smith

80.  Precision of communication is important, more important than ever, in our era of hair trigger balances, when a false or misunderstood word may create as much disaster as a sudden thoughtless act. ~James Thurber

81.  Public speaking is the art of diluting a two-minute idea with a two-hour vocabulary. ~John Fitzgerald Kennedy

82.  Saying nothing... sometimes says the most. ~Emily Dickinson

83.  Speak clearly, if you speak at all; carve every word before you let it fall. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes

84.  Speech is power: speech is to persuade, to convert, to compel. It is to bring another out of his bad sense into your good sense. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

85.  Storytellers, by the very act of telling, communicate a radical learning that changes lives and the world: telling stories is a universally accessible means through which people make meaning ~Chris Cavanaugh

86.  Talking and eloquence are not the same: to speak and to speak well are two things. A fool may talk, but a wise man speaks. ~Heinrich Heine

87.  The advantage of modern means of communication is they enable you to worry about things in all of the world ~Dr. Laurence J. Peter

88.  The colossal misunderstanding of our time is the assumption that insight will work with people who are unmotivated to change. Communication does not depend on syntax, or eloquence, or rhetoric, or articulation but on the emotional context in which the message is being heard. People can only hear you when they are moving toward you, and they are not likely to when your words are pursuing them. Even the choices words lose their power when they are used to overpower. Attitudes are the real figures of speech. ~Edwin H. Friedman

89.  The communications of humanity obviously are trending towards that future point at which virtually all information will be spontaneously available and copyable at the individual level: beyond that, a vast transformation must occur. ~Gene Youngblood

90.  The ear of the leader must ring with the voices of the people. ~Woodrow Wilson

91.  The genius of communication is the ability to be both totally honest and totally kind at the same time. ~John Powell

92.  The Internet is the most important single development in the history of human communication since the invention of call waiting. ~Dave Barry

93.  The language of the body is the key that can unlock the soul. ~Konstantin Stanislavsky

94.  The more elaborate our means of communication, the less we communicate. ~Joseph Priestley

95.  The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words. ~Rachel Naomi Remen

96.  The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said. ~Peter F. Drucker

97.  The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them. ~Stephen King

98.  The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. ~Dale Carnegie

99.       The problem with communication is the illusion that is has occurred. ~George Bernard Shaw

100.    The reality today is that we are all interdependent and have to co-exist on this small planet. Therefore, the only sensible and intelligent way of resolving differences and clashes of interests, whether between individuals or nations, is through dialogue. ~The Dalai Lama

101.    The reason why so few people are agreeable in conversations is that each is thinking more about what he intends to say than about what others are saying, and we never listen when we are eager to speak. ~Francois La Rochefoucauld

102.    The relationship is the communication bridge between people. ~Alfred Kadushin

103.    The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place. ~George Bernard Shaw

104.    The speed of communications is wondrous to behold. It is also true that speed can multiply the distribution of information that we know to be untrue. ~Edward R. Murrow

105.    The time to stop talking is before people stop listening. ~Unknown

106.    The tongue is the only tool that gets sharper with use ~Washington Irving

107.    The trouble with talking too fast is you may say something you haven't thought of yet. ~Ann Landers

108.    The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives. ~Anthony Robbins

109.    The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives. ~Anthony Robbins

110.    The whole purpose of democracy is that we may hold counsel with one another, so as not to depend upon the understanding of one man. ~Woodrow Wilson

111.    There are enough compulsive talkers; have you met any compulsive listeners? ~Unknown

112.    There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say, and how we say it. ~Dale Carnegie

113.    There are men who would quickly love each other if once they were speak to each other; for when they spoke they would discover that their souls had only separated by phantoms and delusions. ~Ernest Hello

114.    There cannot be greater rudeness than to interrupt another in the current of his discourse. ~John Locke

115.    There is all the difference in the world between having something to say and having to say something. ~John Dewey

116.    There is more than a verbal tie between the words common, community, and communication.... Try the experiment of communicating, with fullness and accuracy, some experience to another, especially if it be somewhat complicated, and you will find your own attitude toward your experience changing. ~John Dewey  

117.    There will be no peace among the nations without peace among the religions and no peace among the religions without dialogue. ~Fr. Hans Kung

118.    They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel. ~Carl W. Buechner

119.    Think like a wise man but communicate in the language of the people. ~William Butler Yeats

120.    Think like a wise man but communicate in the language of the people. ~William Butler Yeats

121.    To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others. ~Anthony Robbins

122.    To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others. ~Anthony Robbins

123.    To listen well is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well ~John Marshall

124.    To listen well is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well. ~John Marshall

125.    Two monologues do not make a dialogue. ~Jeff Daly

126.    Two prisoners whose cells adjoin communicate with each other by knocking on the wall. The wall is the thing which separates them but is also their means of communication. It is the same with us and God. Every separation is a link. ~Simone Weil

127.    We cannot learn from one another until we stop shouting at one another - until we speak quietly enough so that our words can be heard as well as our voices. ~Richard M. Nixon

128.    We come to know ourselves, then, through coming to know each other. And the deeper that knowledge, the richer and more creative the world we build together. ~Danny Martin

129.    We have to face the fact that either all of us are going to die together or we are going to learn to live together and if we are to live together we have to talk. ~Eleanor Roosevelt

130.    We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak. ~Epictetus

131.    We shall never be able to remove suspicion and fear as potential causes of war until communication is permitted to flow, free and open, across international boundaries. ~Harry S. Truman

132.    When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion. ~Dale Carnegie

133.    When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen. ~Ernest Hemingway

134.    When two people meet, there are really six people present. There is each man as he sees himself, each man as he wants to be seen, and each man as he really is. ~Michael De Saintamo

135.    Whenever two good people argue over principles, they are both right. ~Marie Ebner von Eschenbach

136.    Who speads, sows; Who listens, reaps. ~Argentine Proverb

137.    Without mutual knowledge there can be no mutual understanding; without understanding, there can be no trust and respect; without trust, there can be no peace, only the danger of conflict. This means we have to be willing and able to familiarize ourselves with the way people of other cultures think and perceive the world around them, but without losing our own standpoint in the process. ~Roman Herzog, President of Germany

138.    Writing has nothing to do with communication between person and person, only with communication between different parts of a person's mind. ~Rebecca West

139.    You cannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time. ~M. Scott Peck